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Tantric foreplay plays a BIG role in tantric sex because we Tantrikas (followers of tantric sex) believe in taking it slow so that we can get maximum pleasure from each step of the lovemaking process.
Wouldn’t you want to get the very best from each other and the greatest pleasure your bodies each time you make love?
Tantric Foreplay – The Importance of Feedback
Before we begin, it’s important to note that giving and receiving feedback is an important aspect of tantric foreplay. Not everybody likes the same things and more often than not, we read something or hear some sexy tip and automatically think our partners will like them!
Case in point: Joel (real name withheld for privacy), has seen quite a few x-rated films where ‘spitting’ played a big role. Of course in the movie, the woman liked it and thought his girlfriend would love that too. True enough, after he did it, his girlfriend was disgusted wouldn’t speak to him for quite a while!
While engaging in tantric foreplay, it’s important that you ask simple questions to ensure that she really likes what you’re doing. For instance, you can simply ask ‘Honey, do you like it when I do this?’. A full blown discussion need not follow! (That would kill the mood.) A simple moan should be enough for you!
Now, here’s a little tip from advanced Tantric sex followers, establish a sort of ‘gesture sheet’ so that you two can communicate with each other subtly during foreplay (and during actual intercourse too). For instance, her rubbing the top of your head means she likes what you’re doing, massaging your head means she’s really into what you’re doing, and tugging lightly at your hair means she feels she might cum from what you’re doing!
As for things she’s not so hot about, a faint grunt or maybe a tightening together of her thighs should tell you to back off a bit with what you’re doing.
Tantric Foreplay – Here’s How You Can Really Pleasure Her
Following are some tantric foreplay moves you can try tonight!
One: Studies show that most people engage only the upper part of their bodies and each other’s faces during foreplay. Since we’re after full body pleasure here, start from the bottom up.
- Massage her feet and toes and try some licking and sucking there.

- Move up and gently massage her legs or use some other texture / fabric (e.g., velvet, silk, etc.) to caress her legs.

- Extend her leg up and lick the back of her leg.

- Blow at the back of her knees.

- Stroke inner and outer portions of her thighs. (Did you know that doing this helps increase blood flow to the genitals?)
Two: Use your teeth. Gentle nibbling is encouraged (don’t bite!). When you’re caressing her thighs, go down and nibble at the fleshiest part a little bit. When you’re going down on her, a few very gentle nibbles on her labia are encouraged. When you move upwards to her breasts, nibble around her areola. You may try and tug or gently bite her nipples but be sensitive to how she reacts to this.
You can also use your teeth to graze (like fingernails) other areas of her skin like her shoulder blades and collarbone.
Three: Blindfold her. Blindfolding entails a lot of trust in each other so don’t push this if she’s not ready. Furthermore, don’t encourage anything or do anything you’re not willing to try yourself. So why try blindfolding during tantric foreplay?
Each time one of the senses is covered, the other senses begin to heighten. For example, the effect of a single lick on her wrist would be magnified a hundred times over if she’s blindfolded. Also, it builds sexual tension because the mind begins to anticipate certain things. You can even try foreplay with both of you blindfolded!
Four: Please yourself first or ask her to please herself first. At first glance, this may sound like a selfish act completely against Tantric sex principles. Actually, it’s not.
Showing your partner who you want to be pleased (or vise versa) is a great exercise in trust and ‘education’. Consider this, would you go about pleasing yourself with just anyone? Of course not. You would only be comfortable doing this with someone you love and trust. And at the same time, you’re giving your partner a clear blueprint on how you want to be loved. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with that!

Did you know that the direct translation of karma sutra is sexual science? It is a love manual written by an Indian sage who lived sometime in the 2nd century A.D.  These writings were based on an even older version of a love making manual called the “Rule of Love” written some time in the 7th century B.C.

The Karma Sutra offers many tips that go beyond positions and techniques. It explores the intimacy of touch and massage and the importance of foreplay and communication between couples. It understands that there must be a connection between two people to get the most from a sexual experience. Erotic massage can help create that connection.

According to the Karma Sutra, erotic massage is an essential part of lovemaking. Moving too quickly into the sexual act without proper attention to foreplay and exploration will diminish the experience. Erotic massage is the perfect way to savor the moment with your loved one, to experience the fullest of pleasure and to explore and savor every inch of each other’s bodies.

Resist the temptation to plunge head long into intercourse and orgasm. Allow yourselves the opportunity to float along the edges of desire by engaging in prolonged periods of erotic massage.

The Karma Sutra instructs us to begin before we begin by touching throughout the day with light, unexpected touches. These are a subtle display of affection that will let your partner know you are thinking of them and are looking forward to time spent alone together at a later time. The power of touch can not be stressed enough, especially gentle touches from a loved one.  Soft touches are whispers of love that can be very erotic.

These touches are the foreplay of erotic massage as described in the Karma Sutra. The Karma Sutra instructs us to touch our partner’s body with soft, gentle strokes always remembering that our partner’s flesh, as well as our own, is delicate and sensitive and is to be treated with reverence and respect. Using sensual oils, warmed sufficiently in the hands of the giver will provide a thin veil of protection to our lover’s skin as we explore their bodies. With each movement of our finger tips we are conveying our good intentions for their pleasure. We are telling them through touch that we want only good sensations for them, inviting them to relax, trust and enjoy.

Generations of ancestors have recognised massage as one of the most pleasurable, relaxing and healthy ways to maintain a healthy mind and body.  The deeply enjoyable wonders of a good sensual massage have been captivating our imaginations for years.

When you want to indulge your every being with a sensual awakening of your mind and body then the beauty and grace of a naked massage from a stunning masseuse, with her soft hands and voluptuous body, will bring your inner sensual self to the fore.

A sensual massage brings the most incredible state of relaxation and stimulates a pleasing embrace of physical enjoyment. A naturist massage in London will give you the most memorably pleasurable experience you will have had and not only this but the health benefits include improved sleeping patterns, increased circulation, release of tight muscles and a completely energising charge for your body.

A sensual massage will connect your mind to your sub conscious and enable you to link back into exciting and happy experiences, whilst the nerve endings in your body are ignited to spread a gentle glow of deep satisfaction.

A naked masseuse is a very special person who is capable of providing the magic touch to your body which will enable you to feel a complete embrace and harmony with your entire being.

A sensory massage in London with WINKS means a beautiful masseuse, gently relaxing music which washes over you and non scented, non staining massage oils which warm and moisturise your skin. This experience is the entire immersing of your body into a sensory paradise of complete bliss.

We provide a massage in London that can reach the furthest crevices of a human body and gently nurture it with the soft and caressing hands of an absolutely stunning, and completely naked, woman.

Foreplay is the most important aspect of lovemaking and sexual technique. It is the determining factor in the total enjoyment of the experience. Erotic massage techniques can enhance your sexual experience tremendously.

Foreplay consisting of erotic massage relaxes the couple and opens them up to far greater pleasure than otherwise obtainable. It provides the perfect opportunity to explore and enjoy each other’s bodies without the pressure of sexual achievement. As a result it allows for a more relaxed and enjoyable experience.

There are many different positions you can take to begin a foreplay massage. It will depend entirely upon the part of the body being massaged and which party is the giver and which the receiver.

One position many females enjoy is where the giver takes a seated position on a bed with pillows comfortably supporting the back and legs stretched out in front of them comfortably spread. Both partners should be naked or lightly clothed. The female then sits between the givers legs, her back leaning against her partner’s chest and her head resting comfortably. The giver can then comfortably massage the breasts and upper abdomen leaving the female in a position to simply lie back and enjoy.

A second option places the male in the same position. The giver then kneels between his legs. This position affords the giver access to the male’s whole body while he comfortably remains in a receiving position. It also allows the couple to look into each other’s eyes as they talk softly and enjoy being together.

A third foreplay position places the female on her stomach fully unclothed with the giver seated comfortably beside her. This position places the female in the receiving position and allows the giver complete control of the erotic massage. She can close her eyes and enjoy the sensations of her partner’s touch.

A fourth option is for the female to be seated on a couch or chair and for the giver to kneel between her legs. This offers the giver the opportunity to comfortably begin an erotic massage of the lower body while still have comfortable access to the upper. This can provide a comfortable foreplay position that lends itself to a Yoni or breast massage while making it easy for the couple to maintain eye contact.

When choosing an erotic massage foreplay position, you are only limited by your imagination. Just make sure you are both comfortable and can gain easy access to each other’s bodies while maintaining eye contact.

Sensual massage is the perfect way for couples to develop intimacy and grow closer together both physically and emotionally. Too often couples dive right into the sex act without giving any time or attention to foreplay and preparation. “Getting in the mood” is essential to providing a positive foundation for any sexual experience.

Traditionally it has been thought that foreplay was only important to women but it is equally important to men to feel relaxed and to lose the desire to perform. Sexual interaction is about intimacy and closeness and feeling good together. In order to obtain this wonderful state it is important to proceed slowly so you can both fully enjoy the experience.

Giving your partner a sensual massage is a wonderful beginning. It allows both of you the opportunity to take the time needed to relax and to get in touch with each other both physically and emotionally. Set aside plenty of time and take turns giving each other sensual and erotic massages. It can be extremely helpful to temporarily put aside all notions of the sexual act itself and delve deeply into the touching experience itself without expectation.

Before you begin your sensual couples massage you may enjoy a long bath or shower together, taking turns washing each other without sexual activity. Just touch, explore and indulge each other. Use soft, clean fluffy towels and dry each other’s bodies slowly and gently. 

Move on to the bedroom and light candles and play soft, relaxing music. Bring out the massage oils and place a large towel on the bed to absorb any oil drips and to make a comfortable place for the person receiving the massage to lie. Use plenty of pillows to support the head so you can look into each other’s eyes during the massage and watch.

Use plenty of oil to make keep the skin soft and supple as you massage. The friction mixed with the oils will warm the flesh and make for an extremely pleasurable sensation.

Begin the massage on the upper body indulging the neck, shoulders and lower back. Don’t forget to include the arms, hands and fingers. Take our time with each other. Focus completely on the task at hand forgetting all else. Explore and get to know one another completely making mental notes as you go so you can remember the experience later on. Continue on to the hips, buttocks and thighs working your fingers now and again very close to erogenous zones without actually indulging. That will come later when you’re primed, relaxed and ready to move forward. If you are not, do not be concerned. A sensual couple massage can be enough.