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Sensual massage is the perfect way for couples to develop intimacy and grow closer together both physically and emotionally. Too often couples dive right into the sex act without giving any time or attention to foreplay and preparation. “Getting in the mood” is essential to providing a positive foundation for any sexual experience.

Traditionally it has been thought that foreplay was only important to women but it is equally important to men to feel relaxed and to lose the desire to perform. Sexual interaction is about intimacy and closeness and feeling good together. In order to obtain this wonderful state it is important to proceed slowly so you can both fully enjoy the experience.

Giving your partner a sensual massage is a wonderful beginning. It allows both of you the opportunity to take the time needed to relax and to get in touch with each other both physically and emotionally. Set aside plenty of time and take turns giving each other sensual and erotic massages. It can be extremely helpful to temporarily put aside all notions of the sexual act itself and delve deeply into the touching experience itself without expectation.

Before you begin your sensual couples massage you may enjoy a long bath or shower together, taking turns washing each other without sexual activity. Just touch, explore and indulge each other. Use soft, clean fluffy towels and dry each other’s bodies slowly and gently. 

Move on to the bedroom and light candles and play soft, relaxing music. Bring out the massage oils and place a large towel on the bed to absorb any oil drips and to make a comfortable place for the person receiving the massage to lie. Use plenty of pillows to support the head so you can look into each other’s eyes during the massage and watch.

Use plenty of oil to make keep the skin soft and supple as you massage. The friction mixed with the oils will warm the flesh and make for an extremely pleasurable sensation.

Begin the massage on the upper body indulging the neck, shoulders and lower back. Don’t forget to include the arms, hands and fingers. Take our time with each other. Focus completely on the task at hand forgetting all else. Explore and get to know one another completely making mental notes as you go so you can remember the experience later on. Continue on to the hips, buttocks and thighs working your fingers now and again very close to erogenous zones without actually indulging. That will come later when you’re primed, relaxed and ready to move forward. If you are not, do not be concerned. A sensual couple massage can be enough.

 

 

Giving your male partner a tantric massage for men is the ultimate form of love, without sex, that a couple can experience, according to ancient erotic texts. It is important to remember that the physical act of tantric massage is not sex, but self discovery with someone you love. By performing a tantric massage on the one you love you are opening up a whole new world to them and helping them discover things about themselves and you, through the use of tantric male massage.

A tantric massage for men has many health and stress reduction benefits for both the person receiving the massage and the person performing the massage. A couple will become closer through the process of discovering their partner, and discovering themselves. The masseuse will massage the man’s penis softly which helps to awaken them to a new realm of pleasure that will help them become calm, collected and better able to manage life around them.

To begin the male massage have the receiver lie on his back with pillows under his head so he can watch the person performing the massage. Have him spread his legs apart and bend his knees. You can prop pillows under his legs for added comfort. Start by gently massaging the legs, abdomen, thighs, chest, and nipples to get the man to relax. It’s also important for the man to breathe deeply to help relax. Next you can pour a small quantity of oil on the shaft of the penis and the testicles. Gently massage the testicles, being careful not to cause pain to this sensitive area, then massage the area above the penis, on the pubic bone.

Also massage the perineum, the area between the testicles and the anus, before moving on to the shaft of the penis. Take your time when massaging the shaft of the penis, varying the speed and the pressure. Gently squeeze the base of the penis with your right hand, pull up and slide off, then alternate with your left hand. Take your time doing this as well, alternating between left and right. You can then change the direction by starting the squeeze at the head of the penis, and then sliding down and off. Again, alternate with your left and right hand.

Massage the head of the penis as if you were using an orange juicer, and then massage all around the head and shaft. You will likely find that the penis will get hard, then get soft, then get hard again, and this means you’re doing it right. Hardness and softness are two ends of the pleasure spectrum. If you think the man is going to ejaculate, back off and allow the penis to soften a little before continuing. Men can learn the art of ejaculatory mastery and control by coming close to ejaculation and then backing off on the stimulation. Orgasm and ejaculation are two different responses that you can learn to separate and the result is an expanded sex life.