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Sensual massage is the perfect way for couples to develop intimacy and grow closer together both physically and emotionally. Too often couples dive right into the sex act without giving any time or attention to foreplay and preparation. “Getting in the mood” is essential to providing a positive foundation for any sexual experience.

Traditionally it has been thought that foreplay was only important to women but it is equally important to men to feel relaxed and to lose the desire to perform. Sexual interaction is about intimacy and closeness and feeling good together. In order to obtain this wonderful state it is important to proceed slowly so you can both fully enjoy the experience.

Giving your partner a sensual massage is a wonderful beginning. It allows both of you the opportunity to take the time needed to relax and to get in touch with each other both physically and emotionally. Set aside plenty of time and take turns giving each other sensual and erotic massages. It can be extremely helpful to temporarily put aside all notions of the sexual act itself and delve deeply into the touching experience itself without expectation.

Before you begin your sensual couples massage you may enjoy a long bath or shower together, taking turns washing each other without sexual activity. Just touch, explore and indulge each other. Use soft, clean fluffy towels and dry each other’s bodies slowly and gently. 

Move on to the bedroom and light candles and play soft, relaxing music. Bring out the massage oils and place a large towel on the bed to absorb any oil drips and to make a comfortable place for the person receiving the massage to lie. Use plenty of pillows to support the head so you can look into each other’s eyes during the massage and watch.

Use plenty of oil to make keep the skin soft and supple as you massage. The friction mixed with the oils will warm the flesh and make for an extremely pleasurable sensation.

Begin the massage on the upper body indulging the neck, shoulders and lower back. Don’t forget to include the arms, hands and fingers. Take our time with each other. Focus completely on the task at hand forgetting all else. Explore and get to know one another completely making mental notes as you go so you can remember the experience later on. Continue on to the hips, buttocks and thighs working your fingers now and again very close to erogenous zones without actually indulging. That will come later when you’re primed, relaxed and ready to move forward. If you are not, do not be concerned. A sensual couple massage can be enough.

 

 

One thing that men are never taught in sex-education classes or from their parents is the importance of maintaining the sensitivity and sensational abilities of the penis. Why is this important?

The ability of the penis to perceive sensations and to remain sensitized to physical stimulation (through masturbation or sex) is one of the cornerstones of healthy and pleasurable sex in a man’s life. When a decrease in this sensatory and sensitivity perception is decreased, so, too, will his sexual pleasure decrease.

It’s important for men to take care of their penises to ensure that these perceptions are not compromised. Here are few reasons for decreased penile perception that men should be aware of.

1) Adult Circumcision – Circumcision is usually performed on the infant but many adult men have it performed to decrease discomfort, to make their penis look more attractive, and for religious reasons. Circumcision, whether performed in the infant or the adult, will inevitably lead to a decrease in sensation and sensitivity in the penis. The foreskin is rich with nerve endings and by eliminating it, it reduces the sexual stimulation a man can perceive. Circumcision can also scar the penis and this, too, will destroy the nerve endings and “deaden” the area to sexual stimulation.

2) Masturbation – One of the cures for Premature Ejaculation is to masturbate heavily without any lubricant. This increased friction to the sensitive skin of the penis (and its nerve endings) will decrease sensation in the penis and “deaden” your sensation, too. Using a natural, water-based lubricant is very important, as you never want to masturbate directly with the harder and calloused skin of your hands. A condom can also be utilized to form an outer “skin” on your penis which will help aid in keeping your nerve endings from being damaged. Lubricant is especially preferred in the winter months, as the skin is much drier and prone to being damaged due to the decrease in humidity.

3) Underwear – Natural materials (cotton or silk) should be used for underwear, as the synthetic fibers tend to be more rough. Boxers are not recommended, as this allows your penis to be free and rub against the fabric which, over time, can lead to desensitization. Y-fronts are preferred as they snug up the penis and do not allow it to be rubbed against the fabric. This is especially important if you are running or working out. Note that boxers are healthier for sperm, as they allow the testicles to hang more freely, while Y-fronts continually keep the testicles close to the body and can have an ill effect on the life of sperm (due to the increased temperature of the body).

4) Penis Abrasions – Any time the skin tears on the penis due to excessive masturbation, trauma, or even getting caught in your zipper, must be addressed. When the tissues have been damaged like this, especially if there is bleeding or a scab has formed, it is imperative to hold off on masturbating or sex until it is well over 100% healed. Any stimulation to the damaged areas will typically decrease the sensation in these areas, especially if there is scarring.

There are many sensory receptors in the penis, but most of them are located in the skin. Taking care of the skin of the penis is very important if you want to maintain your sexual pleasure and perception.

To learn ways of helping restore the sensitivity of the penis, read IRON MAN PENIS – THE RUSSIAN SYSTEM and hypersensitize your penis as much as possible.

Sincerely

Georg von Neumann

We live in a stressful world and it seems to be only getting more and more stressful. As a result, we are all looking for ways to help calm things down and make ourselves feel better as a result.

There are many ways to do this, from simply relaxing on the couch or spending time with someone we love. However, there is a new way that is coming along in the West that is changing how women relax and it comes in the form of an erotic massage.

This female genital intimate massage is helping more and more women discover the art of sensual massage and learn to relax in their lives.

Tantra massage is something that more and more women are disovering as a way to not only relax, but to find the joys and highs of being intimate with someone they love and trust through an erotic massage. In the Tantric Texts, it is specified that sex has three distinct and separate purposes; procreation, pleasure and liberation. It says that those who want to seek liberation must forget the orgasm for a higher form of ecstasy. Throughout the texts, many sexual rituals are recommended and they involve elaborate and meticulous preparations. This is because the act of Tantra involves balancing energies within the pranic ida and pingala channels of the body. During the act of tantra, the sushumna nadi is awakened and the kundalini rises within it. When this happens, everything culminates in Samadhi where the individuals are completely dissolved in the unity of cosmic consciousness.

Now what does this have to do with female genital intimate massage?

Well, to understand what this massage is, you need to understand what Tantra massage is.  In Tantra, a women’s genital area is called ‘Yoni’, which means ‘sacred place.’ Throughout Tantra massages, it is important to stress the need to relax, slow down and admire every inch of the body. The masseuse performing the female genital intimate massage or yoni massage must go over ever part of the body, not just the genitals in the massage, respecting and loving all of it, not to mention the part between the legs. This is the best way to perform the massage and show the love and relaxation that comes with it.

The massage should start with the masseuse sitting or standing between the woman’s legs, while the masseuse gently draws their fingertips up along the thighs and vaginal lips. Through the wide range of strokes and gentles movements of the hand during the course of the tantra massages, the woman will begin to feel more and more pleasure as the masseuse begins to explore and discover every single inch of her.

Through all of this, the woman and her partner will discover new ways to feel love for each other as they explore the intimacy of their relationship through female genital intimate massage.

It is important to understand that this massage is not only for pleasure, but it has several health benefits for the woman, including stress-reduction. When the woman has suffered through a long day of work and needs a way to unwind, there is no better way than this. Through the erotic massage, stress can decrease greatly and feelings of well-being and pleasure will overwhelm the body. As many doctors will tell you, this is a great way to help heal the body as the human body heals much better when it is happy, rather than depressed, stressed or sad.

If you love your partner and want to show her why you care so much for her, then give her a night she will never forget with a female genital intimate massage.

Generally, hard plastic sex toys are preferred by users because almost any sex shop sells them in more affordable terms. However, there are a series of other advantages of hard plastic adult toys that contribute to their popularity amongst users. One such advantage is the manner of transmission of vibrations – in the case of adult vibes made of hard plastic.

Hard plastic is a non-porous material and it does not include health-damaging chemical components, such as phthalates (usually found in adult toys that use combinations of silicone and rubber). In addition, if you have any sort of sensitivity to chemical substances or to latex, for instance, you will be completely safe with hard plastic sex toys, as the material is hypoallergenic.

You are likely to derive the same amount of pleasure from a dildo made of hard plastic (particularly if you like it truly rough), but also from a vibrator made of the same material. Since the material is non-porous, an adult toy made of it will be very easy to clean. Essentially, you can use – the same as in the case of silicone adult toys – water and soap or bleach or alcohol-based cleaning products. You will only have to pay attention to rinsing the toys meticulously after you have put bleach on them, for example.

Hard plastic is durable, but it can break rather easily – therefore, when you store your hard plastic sex toys, make sure that there is no possibility of them falling from their storage area. In addition, make sure you do not let them drop suddenly while you are using them. Fissures in hard plastic toys could be causing pain on your body, as they can make the toy sharp and painful to use.

You can ease penetration with hard plastic sex toys if you add lubricants. The good news is that all sorts of lubricants are good to use with hard plastics – whether they are water based or silicone-based, they will work the wet miracles that you are expecting them to work. Penetration will feel as powerful as you want it to feel, with the right amount of lubricant applied on the toy.

To conform to heath safety rules, it is preferable to put a condom on hard plastic adult toys while you are using them, even if you are using them alone or together with a partner. We reinforce this piece of advice particularly if you are using a vibrator or a dildo, both for anal and for vaginal penetration.

A condom on the toy will prevent the transmission of potentially unsafe and, therefore, harmful microorganisms. Indeed, you may wash a hard plastic adult toy, but this does not mean you have also completely disinfected it. The issue grows even more complicated because you cannot boil hard plastic, as it is damaged at the boiling temperature of water. However, you can prevent any disease by taking care of it during the sex act.

Giving your male partner a tantric massage for men is the ultimate form of love, without sex, that a couple can experience, according to ancient erotic texts. It is important to remember that the physical act of tantric massage is not sex, but self discovery with someone you love. By performing a tantric massage on the one you love you are opening up a whole new world to them and helping them discover things about themselves and you, through the use of tantric male massage.

A tantric massage for men has many health and stress reduction benefits for both the person receiving the massage and the person performing the massage. A couple will become closer through the process of discovering their partner, and discovering themselves. The masseuse will massage the man’s penis softly which helps to awaken them to a new realm of pleasure that will help them become calm, collected and better able to manage life around them.

To begin the male massage have the receiver lie on his back with pillows under his head so he can watch the person performing the massage. Have him spread his legs apart and bend his knees. You can prop pillows under his legs for added comfort. Start by gently massaging the legs, abdomen, thighs, chest, and nipples to get the man to relax. It’s also important for the man to breathe deeply to help relax. Next you can pour a small quantity of oil on the shaft of the penis and the testicles. Gently massage the testicles, being careful not to cause pain to this sensitive area, then massage the area above the penis, on the pubic bone.

Also massage the perineum, the area between the testicles and the anus, before moving on to the shaft of the penis. Take your time when massaging the shaft of the penis, varying the speed and the pressure. Gently squeeze the base of the penis with your right hand, pull up and slide off, then alternate with your left hand. Take your time doing this as well, alternating between left and right. You can then change the direction by starting the squeeze at the head of the penis, and then sliding down and off. Again, alternate with your left and right hand.

Massage the head of the penis as if you were using an orange juicer, and then massage all around the head and shaft. You will likely find that the penis will get hard, then get soft, then get hard again, and this means you’re doing it right. Hardness and softness are two ends of the pleasure spectrum. If you think the man is going to ejaculate, back off and allow the penis to soften a little before continuing. Men can learn the art of ejaculatory mastery and control by coming close to ejaculation and then backing off on the stimulation. Orgasm and ejaculation are two different responses that you can learn to separate and the result is an expanded sex life.