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Did you know that the direct translation of karma sutra is sexual science? It is a love manual written by an Indian sage who lived sometime in the 2nd century A.D.  These writings were based on an even older version of a love making manual called the “Rule of Love” written some time in the 7th century B.C.

The Karma Sutra offers many tips that go beyond positions and techniques. It explores the intimacy of touch and massage and the importance of foreplay and communication between couples. It understands that there must be a connection between two people to get the most from a sexual experience. Erotic massage can help create that connection.

According to the Karma Sutra, erotic massage is an essential part of lovemaking. Moving too quickly into the sexual act without proper attention to foreplay and exploration will diminish the experience. Erotic massage is the perfect way to savor the moment with your loved one, to experience the fullest of pleasure and to explore and savor every inch of each other’s bodies.

Resist the temptation to plunge head long into intercourse and orgasm. Allow yourselves the opportunity to float along the edges of desire by engaging in prolonged periods of erotic massage.

The Karma Sutra instructs us to begin before we begin by touching throughout the day with light, unexpected touches. These are a subtle display of affection that will let your partner know you are thinking of them and are looking forward to time spent alone together at a later time. The power of touch can not be stressed enough, especially gentle touches from a loved one.  Soft touches are whispers of love that can be very erotic.

These touches are the foreplay of erotic massage as described in the Karma Sutra. The Karma Sutra instructs us to touch our partner’s body with soft, gentle strokes always remembering that our partner’s flesh, as well as our own, is delicate and sensitive and is to be treated with reverence and respect. Using sensual oils, warmed sufficiently in the hands of the giver will provide a thin veil of protection to our lover’s skin as we explore their bodies. With each movement of our finger tips we are conveying our good intentions for their pleasure. We are telling them through touch that we want only good sensations for them, inviting them to relax, trust and enjoy.

I had a passionate conversation with my cousin over this idea of “Internet Marketing”. He asked as many questions as I can answer accordingly.

One significant question he asked is about how to compete with ‘so many people and websites’ in this business. This is the first time I’m ever asked such a question since I started out, so I did my best to answer…and my answer must have so impressed his father who overheard it that he said, “Yes yes, this is also exactly what I told my staff too.”

This uncle is in the construction business and he does not know much about the Internet as I do, but the point is if he agrees with what I said, then the answer must contain principles applicable in real life.

I do admit that over the years I learned, inculcated and mastered as best as I can what I know to be universal principles whether they can be applied online or off.

I told my cousin you don’t have to ‘compete’ though everything is done in ‘healthy competition’. He has 3 courses of action to participate online, or in any other environments which he so chooses:

1) Be Yourself. I personally think that one of the hardest skill in self-development is ‘knowing thyself’ and shaping your personal identity throughout the years of business evolution. This calls for immense foresight and smart work at sustainability. A great example is Microsoft. This corporation always outdoes its own products and services and therefore it is able to evolute itself. What a powerful lesson it imparts! You better like this company now.

The first paragraph of pg. 129 in Stephen Covey’s “The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People” quotes from Viktor Frankl: “Ultimately, man should not ask what the meaning of life is, but rather must recognize that it is he who is asked. In a word, each man is questioned by life; and he can only answer to life by answering for his own life; to life he can only respond by being responsible.”

2) Be Different. If someone stands at a particular spot in a room, and you can’t stand at his spot because you can’t shift him, are you going to kill yourself of an opportunity to stand elsewhere when it so happens that this very BIG room contains only the 2 of you?

If some of you reading this is losing heart right now over your own e-business, this is my encouragement to you: STAND FIRM, because you are already different. Continue to recognize and uphold the uniqueness of who YOU ARE and…*next point*

3) Be Better. The first case of betterment is to continually take corrective action and improve on your own existing results. If you commit a mistake, ADMIT IT. Admission always opens a new pathway for corrections and improvements. In past experience I know of people who did not allow friends, for all their genuine intentions, to help them simply because they refused to admit defeat!

The second case of betterment is to continually take corrective action and improve on other people’s existing results. If you think you can do better than Jay Abraham, if you think you can do better than Yahoo.com, if you think you can do better than the website next door, if you think you can do better than where you are NOW, GO FOR IT.

How To Wipe Out The Competition With Just A ‘Niche’

As I write this very special report, another idea that is “Niche Marketing” comes to mind. What is a niche really? What is your definition of a ‘niche’? Is it any more different than the 3 above points, or is it on a spot marked ‘X’ right under your nose?

Currently one of the hottest area in Internet Marketing is “Niche Marketing” and now we have several trailblazing personalities to present you a whole lot of education out of it. You can ‘jump’ on the bandwagon as it was with people ‘jumping’ onto Internet Marketing but your decision, action and performance will not prove that you are in “Niche Marketing” unless you fully understand what the above 3 ‘Be’ points really mean to you. Do you understand this very significant point?

Truth is, you may not need experience in “Niche Marketing” to do “Niche Marketing”, but don’t let other people expose you for this ‘missing’ fact!

Our site Internet Mastery Center is a niche. How is that possible? Because we dare to be different? Actually it’s not as hard as it sounds. We are able to create this site simply because no one else did it in a similar fashion! And so it contains our own unique business angle.

Can you see in your mind’s eye what is your own unique business angle? What can you ‘BE’ to be unique?

Here Is One Niche Identification Technique

As a toastmaster, I frequently visit clubs to participate and enjoy a meeting at exercising my public speaking skills. All you toastmasters out there will appreciate what I’m going to write next. At the beginning of each meeting, the language evaluator introduces a “Word Of The Day” with which s/he explains the meaning and significance of a chosen word and then encourages all attendees to use this word as frequently as possible in their speeches. It’s fun and challenging because no one knows what the word is before the meeting but that’s besides the point.

The point is this one single word is going to dictate how all attendees are strategizing to fit it in every time they are called upon to speak.

Similarly, all you need is just one PROFITABLE keyword to reap the full potential out of it and dictate an entire target market as your clients strategize to fit it in their overall business agenda!

It could be “MONEY, “SEX”, “POWER”, “PROFIT”, “KEYWORD”…”keyword marketing”, “car polishing cream”, “decorative lighting”, etc. Surely the first 5 words are no longer specialized niches (unless you don’t see it that way). The best is what YOU know BEST, can do BEST, and make the BEST money out of it (and still be unique, that is).

You can start jotting down a list of words on paper and flip through your dictionary or thesaurus for assistance.

Our word is “Mastery”…what’s yours?

Any ordinary folks who suddenly seemed to know how to answer all the above questions will find that they can dabble in Niche Marketing, Internet Marketing or any other ‘Marketing’ whatever…and they will be UNSTOPPABLE.

Therefore it gives me no more greater pleasure than to learn from you, Dear Master Marketer.

Thank you for being online.

If you are an advanced sex toys consumer, you might have a pretty impressive collection of dildos, vibrators, lubricants, enhancers, and other sex toys. The question that might obviously appear is where to keep all of that treasure.

At first you should decide whether you want to hide them or not. The majority of people prefer to hide their sex toys due to different reasons. People hide toys from children, from their friends, parents, boyfriends or girlfriends, cleaning lady, etc. Actually, what might seem a pretty easy task turns out to be not that simple, because you have to hide not a single toy but the whole collection. And that requires lots of your fantasy. We have some useful ideas for you.

Built-in safe

This is the safest place to hide your sex toys, because it can be open only by the person who knows the code. However, we advice you to take the sex toy that you need out if the safe in advance, don’t keep it there up to the very moment you want to use it. Or it will spoil the foreplay, because you will have to interrupt it. Additionally, when you’re naked and turned out you may find it not that easy to concentrate on the code combination.

In the books

That may sound I bit weird, remember crime stories where this technique is used quite widely. Think it works in crime movies only? Not at all. If you have an abandoned collection of books that nobody reads in your library it does work. Remember how it’s done? Hollow the center of the book then put your sex toy in the book and put the book back on the shelf. A kind of self-made safe! You can also buy such ‘books’, but if you have many sex toys you will need an entire library of these ‘books’. Besides you’ll have to always keep in mind what book contains a certain toy.

Shoe boxes

Shoe boxes don’t attract too much attention due to their not very glamorous look which make them just a perfect place to keep you sex toys. They are discreet and of quite a suitable size for your sex toys. You can also decorate the boxes but this will only draw the unwelcome attention of the others. Try finding your own place to hide your sex toys, use your own imagination.

Massages are easy to do as well as fun to give and receive. You do not have to have any training to give your mate a thoroughly satisfying massage, although if you would like more guidance there are some excellent books and videos available.

Giving each other a massage as a first course of sexual play adds to your entire experience. Both partners are able to relax, leave the world behind, and be in the moment together. With massage, a woman’s body begins to awaken for arousal—her erotic side receives the time and attention she needs to “get in the mood”. A man whose body is relaxed so that his energy can flow more freely is able to last much longer.

You can perform massages just about anywhere—bed, floor, couch—but most comfortable for the masseur is a table at about hip height. It is not likely you have a portable massage table at home, but you do have a kitchen or dining table. With firm cushions, a foam mat or even an air mattress on top covered by a sheet, they make great massage surfaces. If the kitchen or dining rooms do not afford you as much privacy as you would like, move the table into your bedroom.

Give a dry massage—without oil, or a wet one—with oil. The market is flooded with wondrous lubricants—flavored, scented, unscented, edible, warming, tingling—take your pick. You can also make your own with a light vegetable oil, such as safflower, sunflower, jojoba, or canola-grape seed, and add your own essential oils to create a scent you prefer.

This is Al’s refreshing, and lightly spicy recipe, for the massage oil we supply in our lover’s kits at our Tantra weekends.

4 oz. canola oil (or substitute as above)

4 drops YlangYlang essential oil

1-2 drops Black Pepper essential oil (1 in summer, 2 in winter)

1-2 drops Clary Sage essential oil (1 in winter, 2 in summer)

Whichever products you choose for general body massage it is best to use water-based lubricants for massaging a woman’s genitals. Other lubricants may clog her pores and encourage vaginal infection.

Excerpted from Tantra and Kama Sutra Sex Positions eBook by Al Link and Pala Copeland.

The Ladder Theory is based on how hetero men and women evaluate the opposite sex on a first impression basis. The theory follows that the decision is made rather quickly and sets the pace for the relationship as either “platonic” or “romantic.” The logic of the Ladder Theory follows that men are more comfortable having sex with females friends while women make a clearer distinction between friends and lovers. Thus, initial impressions will either be compatible for a romantic relationship or simply create a strong separation in perception and lead to a strictly platonic friendship.

This process of classification and ranking is known as a “ladder.” Of course, the Ladder Theory follows a general statistical percentage for the basis each sex places on attraction during the initial encounter. Basically, this means the kinds of things each sex looks for in order to make a quick decision to pursue a romantic relationship with the other person in question, or not.

The Ladder Theory’s collected points of attraction show a stark difference between how the sexes perceive desirable/attractive traits. Men place 60% of the attraction on looks, 30% on how easily they believe they can sleep with a woman, and 10% on other factors (intelligence, etc). Women on the other hand place 50% of their attraction basis on a man’s wealth or percieved power, 40% on attraction, and 10% on other factors.

That being said, there are clearly some “Do’s and Don’ts” to the Ladder Theory. If followed, they should yield impressive results in terms of making favorable first impression on the opposite sex. Below we have provided some basic examples of Ladder Theory “Do’s and Don’ts” for your advantage.

Ladder Theory Do’s and Don’ts: Males should not make it seem that they are only interested in how attractive or willing their female counterpart is to have sex. Remember guys, ladies are attracted mainly to a man who can provide some kind of security (financial stability). This means men should definitely talk up their selling points, such as their education, accomplishments, and economical growth.

Women should not go out looking like they just got out of bed, or bore a man by keeping a huge personal space bubble. Instead, they should place a greater emphasis on their looks and flirting. We know this sounds silly, but it is true. This technique becomes a means for a woman to see a man’s true colors. If she looks good and is flirting, will the man try to cut straight to sex and expose his intentions, or will he maintain a consistent behavior and engage her, which is much more desirable.